Not A Wheelchair

I remember the first time I walked into a train station in Paris with my cane, feeling the weight of every eye on me. It wasn’t the first time I’d traveled with a disability, but it was the first time I felt like a burden, not a traveler. I had never considered that my mobility aid could be a barrier, not just in physical spaces, but in the perceptions of others. That trip taught me that 'not a wheelchair' isn’t just a phrase; it’s a mindset that can transform how we approach travel.

Traveling with a disability isn’t just about planning the right accommodations or finding the right tools—it’s about redefining what it means to be a traveler. It’s about seeing the world from a different vantage point, not because of a disability, but because of the unique perspective it brings. I learned that ‘not a wheelchair’ is a way of looking at the world, not as a limitation, but as an opportunity to experience it differently.

Now, I approach every trip with the belief that my abilities are not defined by my limitations. I’ve learned to ask the right questions, to prepare the right tools, and to find the right people who can help me handle the world with confidence. This article is my way of sharing that knowledge with others who want to travel not in spite of their disability, but because of it.

Planning with Purpose

As of October 2026, before I travel, I spend at least a week researching the destination. I look at maps, check accessibility reports, and contact hotels ahead of time to confirm their policies. I’ve learned that 72% of travelers with disabilities find it easier to plan their trips if they do this in advance.^[1]

I also make sure to pack the right tools, like a portable ramp for hotel rooms, a travel-sized cane, and a medical kit. These items have saved me countless times, especially when I’ve had to navigate unexpected obstacles.

One of the most important things I’ve learned is to ask questions. Whether it’s about the availability of elevators or the accessibility of public restrooms, asking directly has always led to better outcomes.

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The Power of Positive Expectations

I used to worry that people would treat me differently because of my disability. But I’ve learned that most people are more than willing to help if you approach them with confidence and respect. In fact, 85% of travelers with disabilities say they’ve received positive responses from locals and service providers.^[2]

One of the best pieces of advice I ever received was to treat each new destination like a challenge to overcome. This mindset has helped me navigate everything from steep cobblestone streets to crowded train platforms with ease.

By expecting the best, I’ve found that I often get the best. I’ve met friendly locals who went out of their way to help me, and I’ve even been invited to join local groups and events because of my openness and enthusiasm.

Travel is not about what you can’t do—it’s about what you can.

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Choosing the Right Accommodations

I’ve stayed in places that had wheelchair-accessible rooms with wide doorways and roll-in showers, and I’ve also stayed in places that didn’t. The difference is huge. I recommend checking the hotel’s accessibility page before booking, and if that’s not available, calling the front desk directly.^[3]

I’ve found that luxury hotels are often more accessible than budget hotels, but there are exceptions. I once stayed in a budget hotel in Barcelona that had an accessible room with all the necessary features, including a grab bar in the bathroom.

Always confirm the accessibility features in advance. Don’t assume just because a hotel has an accessible room that it will meet your needs. Ask specific questions about the room layout, door widths, and bathroom accessibility.

“I remember the first time I walked into a train station in Paris with my cane, feeling the weight of every eye on me.”— Traveling with Disabilities Accessible editors

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Getting Around with Confidence

Public transportation is one of the most accessible ways to get around, but it’s not always perfect. I’ve found that in cities like Amsterdam and London, the public transit systems are very accessible, with low-floor buses and elevators in subway stations.

However, in some places, especially in smaller towns, public transport may not be as accessible. In these cases, I’ve found it helpful to book a private transfer or use ride-hailing services with accessible vehicles.

I always make sure to have a backup plan. Whether it’s a map with accessible routes or a list of local accessibility advocates, I believe that preparation can make a world of difference.

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Experiencing the World on Your Terms

I’ve climbed the Eiffel Tower, hiked in the Swiss Alps, and even taken a hot air balloon ride—all with my mobility aid. These experiences weren’t made easier by my disability, but they were made possible because I approached them with determination and preparation.

One of the most rewarding aspects of traveling with a disability is the opportunity to experience the world on your own terms. I’ve learned that accessibility is not about being limited, but about finding new ways to explore and enjoy.

By focusing on what I can do, rather than what I can’t, I’ve found that I can experience just as much—and often more—than other travelers.

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Sharing the Journey with Others

I’ve traveled with friends, family, and even other travelers with disabilities, and each experience has been unique. When I travel with others who understand the challenges of mobility, I find that we’re able to support each other in ways that make the trip more enjoyable.

I’ve also found that many people are eager to learn about the realities of traveling with a disability. By sharing my experiences, I’ve been able to educate others and help them understand what it’s really like.

Whether you’re traveling with someone or on your own, it’s important to remember that you’re not alone. There are always people who are willing to help, and there are always opportunities to connect with others who share your perspective.

Travel is better when you share it with others who understand.

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Embracing the Unexpected

I’ve had my share of unexpected challenges, from missed flights to inaccessible hotels, but each time I’ve learned something new. These experiences have taught me to be more flexible, more patient, and more creative.

I’ve also learned that sometimes the best travel experiences come from the unexpected. I once got lost in a small village in Italy, and instead of being frustrated, I ended up meeting a local who showed me around and invited me to his home for dinner.

By embracing the unexpected, I’ve found that I can turn obstacles into opportunities. Whether it’s a missed flight or a broken wheelchair ramp, I’ve learned to adapt and find new ways to enjoy my travels.

The Art of Packing with Intention

Packing for travel with mobility challenges requires thoughtful planning. I always carry a lightweight, foldable mobility aid that can be easily stored in my luggage. I’ve found that a manual wheelchair weighing less than 15 pounds is ideal for air travel, as it’s easier to carry through security checkpoints and onto planes. I also keep a small, lightweight cane in my carry-on, which I use for short walks and to maintain balance in unfamiliar environments.^[4]

I prioritize packing in multiple, easily accessible bags to avoid overloading a single piece of luggage. During a recent trip to Barcelona, I used three separate bags: one for my mobility aid, one for daily essentials, and one for clothing. This system allowed me to move more freely and avoid the stress of carrying heavy loads. I’ve also discovered that using compression bags can reduce the overall size of my luggage, saving space and making it easier to maneuver through tight spaces.

I also make it a point to pack travel-sized toiletries and essential medications in clearly labeled containers. This has been especially helpful during long layovers, where I can quickly access what I need without rummaging through my bags. I’ve found that having a dedicated ‘travel’ bag with all my essential items, such as my mobility aid, medications, and a small first-aid kit, is a game-changer. It reduces stress and ensures I’m always prepared for the unexpected.

Not A Wheelchair